Learn the Art of Positive Parenting

We all really want our children to be well behaved; however, the children are naughty by nature. But once that naughtiness turns into misbehavior, it gets required to discipline them. Now, whenever the question of discipline arises, most parents think the best way to discipline the kids is by using force. However, the reality is that making use of force on children is quite incorrect. It hampers both their emotional and physical wellbeing. What parenting calls for is positive child discipline.

Negative and positive child discipline
Well, there are a lot of reasons why you'll want to use positive child discipline, rather than yelling, when a child does something you don’t accept. Now, screaming and yelling aren't the only two negative ways to discipline a child. There are several other things that parents normally make use of and which also fall into the category of negative discipline. Much to the disappointment of such parents, there are numerous studies that show that negative discipline in fact doesn’t work at all.

Parenting Child Discipline - What you have to know
Here is some apparently basic, but extremely important piece of information at the start. What you might not know is that many of the things your children learn come from observing other folks. You can think of them as mirror that reflects what has shown to it. So, it is quite apparent, that you as parents, and other family members at your house, have great influence on your little one. This stands extremely true if your child is young. Don’t think that because he is so young, he doesn’t possess emotions or he doesn’t understand anything. Should you watch them carefully, you'll find that exactly the same things that hurt, humiliate or hinder us, do the same to them. It actually goes even further with the young kids, as it completely shuts them down.

If we use negative forms to control them, it has the very same influence on them. And what all can be a part of negative forms of discipline? - Criticizing, shaming, embarrassing, shouting, threatening and hitting. It does no good in any respect.

You're reading this itself shows that your way of badly disciplining your children isn't working. Any negative emotion or tactic can never instill any great habits. The children are like soft mud, which can be moulded to any shape we prefer. They are not crooked and neither do they know politics. They only require your love and affection. When we leave aside our egos and manage them positively and lovingly even when they supposedly misbehave, they'll correct by themselves much sooner. Whenever you chastise them, they just feel hurt, and they subtly understand that you are their controller, and therefore they only have to hear you. But this is out of fear, not out of understanding that they did something wrong. What they understand is that you just didn’t like what they did. And therefore, it is no way a permanent solution.

So parenting a child in positive way is the only alternative.

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